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What We Stand For

Raising Awareness & Fostering Social Engagement

In our organization, we work to ensure that situations in which people feel threatened, harassed, or unsafe are not ignored, ridiculed, or downplayed. No one should be left alone in a moment of fear. That’s why we raise awareness among young people as well as staff in bars, clubs, and other public spaces to help them recognize warning signs, organize assistance, and actively support those affected.

Our goal is a community in which people see, support, and protect one another – and in which adults consistently exemplify what courageous, respectful, and responsible action looks like. Courage is not shown by watching, but by stepping in.

This mindset forms the foundation of our trainings and informational materials. They show, in practical ways, what courageous behavior looks like and how everyone involved – guests, staff, security personnel, educators, and parents – can take responsibility together.

Only when we observe, act, and stand up for one another can we ensure in the long term that discrimination, harassment, and violence have no place.

Why this work is necessary

Smartphones and social media have changed how we react in difficult moments. More and more often, people record instead of helping. Emergency services report blocked rescue paths and injured individuals being publicly exposed. Curiosity replaces responsibility – and many people no longer know what the right action would be.

This behavior shows how quickly essential values like compassion, respect, and civil courage can falter – and how strongly young people are shaped by the behavior of the adults around them. Children and teenagers do not adopt our appeals; they adopt our actions.

What we want to teach

We want to foster an attitude that manifests in all areas of life – whether in nightlife, at school, at events, or in everyday public spaces: We want to promote an attitude that applies to all areas of life – whether in nightlife, in school, at events, or in everyday public spaces:

Looking instead of ignoring
Acting instead of filming
Supporting instead of exposing
Civil courage instead of indifference

Our task is to show young people what they too rarely see: adults who take responsibility.

OUR FOCUS AREAS

1. Education & Workshops – Empowerment instead of helplessness

We teach young people and adults:

how to take responsibility in critical situations
how to protect and support people in distress
how to recognize and respect boundaries
how to correctly assess warning signs
how to act respectfully in digital spaces

Knowledge is important – but real change only happens when adults visibly model this attitude.

2. Sports & Teamwork – Fairness starts with the adults

Sports reveal which values truly matter. Young people observe:

how coaches act
how adults resolve conflicts
whether fairness truly matters

At the 2026 benefit soccer tournament, we are deliberately sending a message: being a role model means showing responsibility – on and off the field.

3. Safety & Prevention – Creating spaces that protect

Our work includes:

protection concepts for clubs, schools, and organizations
the “Is Luisa here?” help concept
anti-gawking awareness
education on boundary violations
support for those affected

Safety is not created by rules alone – it is created when people are willing to step in.

4. Digital Responsibility – how we use our gaze

Children and teenagers clearly observe how adults use smartphones:

Do we film?
Do we help?
Do we respect privacy?
Do we share sensitive content?

Digital responsibility starts with adults – it cannot be delegated.

OUR VISION

We strive for a community in which:

adults demonstrate courage, empathy, and responsibility
young people find guidance
those affected receive support
helping becomes a given
respect is visibly practiced
voyeurism and indifference have no space

A community that shows what humanity means: observing, acting, protecting.

Current Projects

Behavior Protocol

for

Unconsciousness

in Bars, Clubs, and Comparable Settings

Target Group: Youth, Friends, Bar Staff, Bouncers/Security

I. Immediate Awareness of the Situation

Recognize the situation: Determines whether a person is unconscious (unresponsive, does not react to touch or approach).
Own safety: Make sure that you and bystanders are not in danger (e.g. from crowds, broken glass, aggressive people).
Ask for help: Make sure that at least one other person provides support (friend, colleague, security).

II. Approaching and Initial Assessment

Approaching: Address the person clearly: “Hello, can you hear me?”
Lightly shake or pinch: Gently try to establish contact to check for any reaction.
Check for breathing: Briefly hold your ear near the mouth/nose and observe the chest. Do you hear or feel any breathing?

If no breathing or irregular breathing is detected: Immediately initiate resuscitation measures (see Section 4).
If there is breathing, but the person does not respond: The person is unconscious.

III. Immediate Actions & Emergency Call

Emergency Call (112):

Provide your name and the exact address (bar/club/event venue).
Briefly describe the situation: “The person is unconscious, but is breathing / is not breathing.”
Follow the instructions from the emergency dispatch center.

Assess the cause (if possible):

Did the person consume alcohol or other substances?
Was there a fall or a fight?
Does the person have pre-existing conditions (e.g., epilepsy, diabetes, heart problems)?
Pass this information along to the emergency responders as soon as they arrive.

IV. Resuscitation (Only If There Is No or Irregular Breathing)

Chest Compressions:

Press down in the center of the chest about 5–6 cm deep at a rate of 100-120 compressions per minute (roughly in the rhythm of “Stayin’ Alive”).
Allow the chest to fully rise after each compression.

Rescue Breaths (Optional, if trained):

After 30 chest compressions, give 2 rescue breaths.
Watch for the chest to rise and fall.
If you feel uncertain or uncomfortable (hygiene, etc.), focus on continuous chest compressions.

Automated External Defibrillator (AED):

If one is available in the club or bar, retrieve it immediately.
Turn on the device and follow its instructions.
Apply the electrodes to the bare chest according to the device/illustration.

Continue until help arrives:

Do not stop until professional responders take over or the person starts reacting.

V. Recovery Position (If the Person Is Breathing but Unconscious)

Check for hazards: Ensure that no vomit or blood is blocking the airways.
Position the person on their side:

Place the nearest arm bent upward (elbow at shoulder level) and the far arm in front of the chest.
Bend the far leg and carefully turn the person onto their side so that their face is slightly downward.
Tilt the head slightly backward to keep the airways clear.

Monitor:

Continue to observe if the person is breathing regularly.
Remain with them until emergency services arrive.

VI. Calming the Environment

Calm those around you:

Briefly explain that you are taking care of the person and have called for help.
Avoid causing panic.

Create space:

If possible, clear an area (push aside tables/chairs, ask guests to keep their distance).

Privacy & Dignity:

If necessary, cover the person and respect their privacy (e.g., no photos or videos by bystanders).

VII. Cooperation with Security and Bar Staff

Bouncers/Security:

Help by keeping an unobstructed access route for the rescuers and by dispersing onlookers.
Check if the person may have been a victim of a crime or dangerous situation (e.g., drugging with “date-rape” drugs, assault).

Bartenders/Staff:

Communicate relevant information to security and the emergency services (if known, which beverages were consumed, any mixed consumption, etc.).
If necessary, support with emergency call handling (address, exact location in the building).

Friends of the Affected Person:

Stay nearby to provide important details about the person (allergies, medical history, emergency contacts).
Help calm the person if they regain consciousness.

VIII. Important Follow-Up

Documentation:

Record the time, the situation, the initial measures taken, and any unusual behavior (e.g., suspicion of drug use, aggression).

Debrief with Emergency Services:

Share any relevant information (personal details, if known, alcohol/drug consumption, observed symptoms).

Further Procedure:

Decide, together with the emergency services and, if necessary, the police, whether further actions (e.g., hospital accompaniment) are required.

Evaluation:

Briefly debrief with your team regarding what went well and what could be improved next time.
If needed, consider professional psychological support (e.g., in cases of shock).

Summary:

Recognize
Secure
React
First Aid
Manage the Environment
Follow Up

Our Goal:

This protocol is designed to ensure that everyone involved—be it friends, bar staff, or security—can act quickly and decisively to provide competent and composed assistance in emergency situations.

Behavior Protocol

for the Code

"Is Luisa here?"

in Bars, Clubs, and Comparable Settings

Target Group: Youth, Friends, Bar Staff, Bouncers/Security

I. Background and Meaning of the Code

What does “Is Luisa Here?” mean? “Luisa is here” or the question “Is Luisa Here?” is an international code used by people (mostly women, but really anyone) in bars, clubs, or other event venues when they feel uncomfortable, harassed, or threatened.
Purpose of the Code:

To send an unobtrusive signal for help to staff or bystanders.
Avoid escalation by not directly indicating that danger is present.
Organize immediate support (escort, discreet resolution, and if necessary, the initiation of further steps).

II. Procedure for Those Affected

Approach the bar or security staff:

Go to the bar, the cash desk, the checkroom or a bouncer.
Say quietly yet clearly: “Is Luisa Here?”

Explain briefly (if possible):

If the situation allows, briefly state what is happening (e.g., “Someone is following me,” “I am being harassed,” “I feel unsafe.”).

III. Immediate Reaction of the Staff

Recognize the Code:

Every staff member or bouncer* must know that "Is Luisa here?" is an internal call for help.

Remain Discreet:

Avoid asking loudly (“What’s wrong?”) in order not to further stress the situation or alert a potential aggressor.

Assume Your Role:

Pretend you are looking for "Luisa" or letting another employee know.
Take swift initiative to remove the affected person from the danger zone (e.g., bring them to an office, a side room, or a quiet corner).

IV. Further Procedure for the Staff

Shielded Conversation:

Speak with the person in private to clarify what has happened.
Example questions:

“Are you injured or in immediate danger?”
“Should I call you a taxi or accompany you to a safe place?”

Organize Assistance:

Inform the friend group: if friends are present, bring the affected person to them or ask them to pick her up.
Involve the security team: in cases of acute danger or if escalation seems imminent, the security staff should intervene (e.g., instructing the aggressor to leave the club).
Call emergency services (112): if a crime has occurred or there is a heightened risk, involve the police.

Possible Support Measures:

Use the phone: offer to facilitate a safe phone call or to inform relatives if needed.
Escort: a staff member or security guard can accompany the person to a taxi, their car, or outside.

V. Recommendations for Friends or Nearby Guests

Observe the Situation:

If you notice someone asking “Is Luisa Here?”, approach them and calmly offer help (e.g., “Can I accompany you?” or “Would you like to go to your friends?”).

Inform the Staff:

If the bar staff hasn’t noticed the situation yet, alert them by saying: “Someone just asked ‘Is Luisa Here?’—she needs help.”

Aftercare:

If you know the person, stay with them until they feel safe again or have arrived home.

VI. Role of the Bouncer or Security

Immediate Identification:

Note when someone uses the code.
Keep an eye out for concerning situations (e.g., if a person is being restrained against their will or harassed).

Separation of the Affected Person and the Aggressor:

If a specific troublemaker is identified, security may discreetly speak to them and, if necessary, ask them to leave.
Check if further danger exists and whether the police need to be called.

Escort:

Accompany the affected person to a safe area or to the outside.

Collaboration:

Maintain contact with the bar staff: when someone “searches for Luisa,” support the team in discreetly implementing the help concept.

VII. Follow-Up and Documentation

Documentation:

Record the date, time, and a brief summary of the situation (what happened and which measures were taken).
In cases of offenses (e.g., sexual harassment, bodily harm), make notes that might later serve as a memory aid for the police.

Team Debriefing:

After the incident, hold a short briefing to discuss what went well and what could be improved next time.

Raising Awareness:

Continuously train the staff on “Is Luisa Here?” and similar distress signals (for example, the code phrase “Angel Shot”) so that they can always react appropriately.

Summary:

Understanding the Code
Discreet Support
Shielded Support
Teamwork
Documentation & Follow-Up

Our Goal:

This protocol ensures that everyone involved - whether among friends or as part of the bar/security team — can react effectively and discreetly when the code “Is Luisa Here?” is used to defuse threatening or uncomfortable situations.

Together

Against the

Loverboy Method

Education, Prevention & a Shift in Awareness

The Loverboy method is an insidious manipulation strategy in which perpetrators deliberately gain the trust of young people to make them emotionally dependent and subsequently exploit them. Yet behind every perpetrator lies a story—often marked by their own experiences of violence, neglect, or criminal environments. Our goal is not only to protect potential victims but also to break down prejudices and foster a deeper understanding of the societal roots of this problem.

Why is Education So Important?

Many people envision loverboys as cold-blooded criminals, but the reality is more complex. Some of them have themselves fallen into dependency or violent relationships at an early age and end up reproducing these patterns. This does not excuse their actions—but it shows that as a society, we need to take a closer look to find long-term solutions. If we only combat the symptoms while ignoring the causes, the problem will persist.

Our Work Addresses Several Levels:

Education & Prevention in Schools

We inform young people about perpetrator strategies, emotional manipulation, and self-protection, so they can safeguard themselves from an early age.

Parent & Teacher Training

Adults learn to recognize warning signs, challenge their prejudices, and respond empathetically to affected young people.

Public Awareness & Consciousness Building

Our campaigns raise awareness of the complex backgrounds of the Loverboy method and stimulate thoughtful reflection.

Breaking Down Prejudices

We encourage discussions that go beyond speaking of perpetrators with hatred or fear and instead focus on uncovering the underlying causes to prevent future exploitation.

Social Media & Digital Prevention

Through videos, testimonials, and interactive content, we reach young people where they are most vulnerable—online.

Our Goal:

To empower young people, minimize risks, and create a society that not only combats symptoms but also understands the underlying issues. Only through knowledge, empathy, and collective action can we ultimately prevent perpetrators from succeeding.

Our Vision

We are a nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting people worldwide. Our goal is to provide a safe space where individuals can recognize and develop their potential, and lead a fulfilling and self-determined life. We support people of all ages, genders, cultural or religious affiliations, physical disabilities, and marital statuses.

Our Values and Activities

Promotion of Potential Development

Supporting and accompanying people in discovering and sustainably implementing their potential.

Project Work and Cooperations

Implementing projects and cooperations to learn and promote communal living.

Knowledge Exchange

Collaborating with scientists, organizations, and associations to promote and disseminate our goals.

Educational Initiatives

Organizing educational trips, events, and congresses, as well as cooperating with educational institutions.

Membership and Engagement

Membership

Open to everyone who identifies with our goals and wishes to get involved.

Types of Membership

Regular members with full participation and supporting members as contributors.

Honorary Membership

Recognition for special services to the association.

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